Deconstruction Coaching with Coach Uwem

"Do I really need a coach for that? Can't I just read my Bible more?"

Truthfully, no. You don't NEED to work with me or any other ALL MADE WELL coach. You can absolutely do this alone. But have you ever lost your footing with a workout plan and stopped for several months? What was the result? Getting started again was harder. You may have lost the progress you had made so far. Embarrasment. Disappointment. And that was just for physical health.

What does an emotional or spiritual setback look like for you?

What is on the line?

That is a question that only you can answer but, for me, it felt like my sanity was on the line. Depression. Anxiety. Anger...let's be honest, RAGE. My relationships with my kids. My marriage. My faith were all at risk as I wrestled with God. As my life felt like it was falling apart, I lost friends and later realized that they couldn't handle holding me up. They hadn't signed up for that.

So again, what's on the line for you?

At ALL MADE WELL, we are Spirit-Led Deconstruction Coaches.

We provide spiritual and emotional support for those healing from church hurt, particularly religious trauma related to race and gender. I specialize in church hurt and also in betrayal trauma from past infidelity, sex addiction, domestic violence, or religious abuse within marriage.

We handle THAT stuff...because we have lived through THAT stuff!

What is Spirit-Led Deconstruction Coaching?

Deconstruction is where you allow yourself to challenge what you have been taught about God and scripture to find what is true and what is not. Many Christians vaguely know that bad things have been done under the cloak of religious freedom and scriptural misinterpretation.

But can you identify where you beliefs have stemmed from those same people? Probably not.

Deconstruction is like a rabbit hole of discovery which can go toward God or adamantly away from God. Our goal with Spirit-Led Deconstruction is to learn the TRUTH about God's character while leaving space for the relationship to evolve and develop. And create clear distinctions with what beliefs came from toxic systems and culture.

God tells us through the apostle John, in 1 John 4:1, to "not believe every spirit, but test the spirits to see whether they are from God, because many false prophets have gone out into the world." Utilizing the Deconstruct to Discover Framework, we teach our clients how to:

#OWNit: validate their experiences,
#VOICEit: listen, communicate and learn from their emotions without be ruled by them,
#HEALit: lean into their story and embody the lessons learned from it, and ultimately
#CONQUERit: find peace with God and with themselves, and use their story to impact others.

If you have followed ALL MADE WELL for any amount of time, you know that HARD QUESTIONS are our sweet spot, so bring it all!!

Let's book a call to discuss what Me MADE WELL, our Deconstruction program can do to support you.

So we do HARD QUESTIONS, right?

Here's a freebie...I know you see all women of color, and originally, yes, that's who this program was created FOR. We wanted to make a space for healing where Black, Brown, and Indigeous people could feel seen and safe to feel.

And something interesting happened.

It worked. Beautifully.

And then we noticed that ONLY Black, Brown, and Indigenous women came to us. So we started thinking, "Why is that?"

We deal a lot with racial bias and gender bias within our programs but the issues can not be fixed by those who are feeling marginalized. For generations, people of color have had to find their space in a world that marginalized and actively resisted their success. And they did! But it took effort.

If you are a man...

If you are minimally melanated or a melanin-deficient person...

Perhaps this is exactly what you need to be the #DISRUPTORLikeJesus, the change agent, in YOUR community.

And if this environment gives you pause, lean into that.

(only Satan wins when you don't.)

Have you ever said...

"I love God, but ugh...the church..."

So now I coach, so you don't have to do it alone.

What does an emotional or spiritual setback look like for you?

Want support?

So we do HARD QUESTIONS, right?

And if this environment gives you pause, lean into that.